(1) Thou shalt not play God.
(2) Thou shalt not play Teacher.
(3) Thou shalt not play Mother or Father.
(4) Thou shalt not lie with your body.
(5) Active listening is the holy time and thou shalt practice it every session.
(6) Thou shalt not be judgmental.
(7) Thou shalt not lose heart because of repeated disappointments.
(8) Thou shalt practice empathy, not sympathy.
(9) Thou shalt not believe that thou can move mountains.
(10) Thou shalt not envy thy neighbor’s protégé, nor thy neighbor’s success.
– John C. Crosby is the Executive Director of the Greater Philadelphia Chapter of The Uncommon Individual Foundation